3 Human Reasons Why People Join Online Community Forums

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November 22, 2022

3 Human Reasons Why People Join Online Community Forums

It’s especially important to keep these reasons in mind during the troubling times we’re currently all facing. Social distancing due to the global pandemic has led many feeling isolated and alone. People can’t go out and see their friends, go to a bar, go to a restaurant or do any sort of activity involving other people. While this is for the best, and something we must do as a society, this has obvious impacts on humanity as a whole.

And though online communities are, currently, all that society can offer,  people need communities—both online and offline. Community is important and central to our DNA as human beings.

Today, I want to share the reasons why humans join communities through the unique perspective that I’m been privileged enough to offer. Not only do I have the in-depth, behind-the-scenes knowledge of online communities as the content writer at Vanilla, but I’ve also got the front-end knowledge by being a member of various communities myself. I’ve seen the impacts that being part of an online community can have on people, and they are overwhelmingly positive.

Note that the title of this post is “human reasons” why people join online communities; I’m not talking about one-timers who sign up to get self-service, crowd-based support. Of course, this is certainly a huge reason why people join online communities—support-based communities are very popular due to the shift towards the desire for customer self-service support. But the immediate demand for a product or service solution doesn’t create long-term, thriving communities. People do. Humans do.

What creates long-term, thriving communities are people who continue to come back and engage because it fulfills a human desire. That being said, here are 3 human reasons behind why people choose to join a online community.

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1. To Be Themselves 

Some people join online communities because it’s a safe space. They are hidden behind the walls of the internet and have the freedom to be who they are without judgement. When people join communities that they are truly interested in, they can connect with like minded individuals and express their opinions in a space where they feel like they belong.

For example, let’s first look at a gaming community. People who join a specific gaming community feel like they’re among friends. Everyone in the community has joined because they like the game to some extent, and it’s a space where they can nerd out and talk about new strategies and game theories. I myself have experienced this first hand — it’s a different experience being surrounded by people who understand what you’re talking about and actually care to listen.

Another example is say, a support community for those living with cancer. This is another place where people can be themselves and express their worries and concerns that they may not have the courage to talk about offline. This may be because they don’t want to worry those around them, or because they feel that those around them won’t understand what they’re going through; either way, the community is a safe space for them to lay it all out while still having enough anonymity to feel secure. It’s a place where they don’t have to hide their worries, fears and thoughts.

2. To Be Someone Else

On the flip side, there are those who join online communities because it gives them the freedom to be someone they can’t be when they’re offline. In a way, this can be incredibly empowering; I like to think of it as how it must feel to move to a new town and start anew. Nobody knows who you are and you can have a fresh start to be anyone that you want to be.

For some, an online community can provide a brief escape from real life to an online world where you can create a new persona and connect with others. For example, maybe someone is incredibly shy in real life and lives with a social anxiety that makes it tough to meet new friends and connect with others. Being part of an online community can provide comfort to these people and help break down the social barriers that they may have in real life by being able to interact with others in an alternative way; a way where they don’t have to show their face, share their name or anything else that they don’t want to.

For some, it’s a place of safety, where they can interact without worrying about being judged for anything other than the words they type.

3. To Feel Connected At All Times

Nobody wants to feel alone—and unfortunately, the current global situation has made this the reality for millions of people. Being part of an online community of people who you’ve built connections with is a valuable remedy to loneliness. Moreover, these connections are available wherever and whenever, at the click of a button. It can be comforting knowing that your online community isn’t going anywhere and that the connections you made online are always there for you, whenever you need them.

For example, if you’re part of an offline support group, you may only meet once a week. When you’re part of an online support community, you could be on 24/7 if you needed to be. Online communities offer members with the appeal of accessibility and reliability.

Online communities will help us feel connected during this time of social isolation. If you’re looking for an online community to help relieve some of the loneliness or isolation you might be feeling at this time, check out these 4 communities that’ll make you feel more connected. 

Concluding Thought

Ultimately, in my experience, these three reasons outline the main human factors that encourage people to join online communities. The anonymity of online communities combined with their 24/7 accessibility makes it quite appealing to a lot of people.

From there, people go on to join communities that grab their attention, allow them to make connections with like minded individuals, or make them feel part of something bigger. Ultimately, the value that community provides can’t be understated, especially with the current situation we’re all facing.

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Nuala Cronin

Written by Nuala Cronin

Nuala is the Content Marketing Manager at Vanilla by Higher Logic. She has adored writing since a young age and graduated with a Master's Degree in Publishing and Literature from the National University of Ireland, Galway.

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